Thursday, August 21, 2008

My Thoughts. . .

    Summer group is over and it is really hard to realize that I won't be seeing any of my kids from group anymore. This job has been the most amazing thing that has ever happened to me. I can't even express in words how much I have loved it, and how much it has changed me. My whole perspective on life has changed because of the kids that I have been able to spend time with this summer. I wish that I could just take some of them home, they hold such a special place in my heart, and I know that some of them are in really bad living situations. But I know that this wish can never come true for me, and that the only thing I have to offer these kids is my friendship and my time, but somehow that has to be enough. I cant fix my kids, I can't fix their problems and I definitely can't fix their parents, or take them away from the very people who should love them and take care of them, but who in reality don't give a crap about them. It's taken me a while to accept that fact that the only thing I can give them is my love, my attention and most importantly my time; it has to be enough. There were several times throughout the summer where I questioned whether or not I was making a difference to those kids, and sometimes it was really hard, but for every hard time there was, I can think of at least three or four good times I had with the kids. They changed my life, and I hope that in some small way I changed theirs. I don't know if I will ever find out what kind of influence I had on any of them, but that is okay, I am just going to take what I have learned and remember all the awesome experiences I had with my kids.
   Well I know this is really out of the blue, but I turned in my mission papers about a week and a half ago. This whole process has been very different from what I thought it would be, and it's actually been alot harder then I ever imagined it would be, but I know that I am doing the right thing and that's what I am counting on to get me through any doubts or fears that I have about it. Right now it's hard because I'm just waiting to see where I will get called to and I'm really not feeling much of anything to be completely honest. I'm not super stoked or super excited right now, which is weird. If you know me very well, you would know that I have always been so adamant about serving a mission and it's always been one of my biggest dreams in life. Well now that dream is turning into a reality, and I feel like instead of it being this sweet,  amazing thing that I have always wanted, it feels like I am making a mature decision about it. Sometimes I wonder whether or not my somewhat lack of excitement means I am making a wrong decision, but I honestly don't feel that's the case (if you can't tell, I've been keeping all of this inside me for a while, and I need to talk myself through it. . . so enjoy this plunge into Stacie's head for a second!). I think I am just apprehensive about where I will be spending the next 18 months of my life, and once I find out when and where I'll be going, then I will be more excited about it. So that's about the jist of it. I am going to be serving a mission soon! But before that I have to go to another semester of doom up at BYU. . .
    I'm really not looking forward to the schedule I have lined up for this next semester, but I have to get these classes out of the way or else I'll prolong my future graduation and the freedom that comes with no more math classes at BYU!!! It will be an amazing day of glory, and I can't wait for it! But for now, I am just going to enjoy the last week that I have at home. . . the end!

4 comments:

Jeanette + Cason said...

Hey cute girl! I saw you had a blog on Facebook so I thought I would check it out! I'm so excited you are going on a mission, that is awesome! -Jeanette

Cali Schaack's said...

Stacie!!! So glad you have a blog. I am adding you to my friends list. What a cool summer program you did. I know you made a big impact on all those kiddos. I love you and miss you :}

Cali Schaack's said...

One more thing. I remember before I got my mission call I had a sense of fear come over me. Very simliar to the feelings you are feeling. The lord conquers all. I am so glad I didn't let fear get in the way of making the greatest decision of my life. Which was serving a mission.( and of course marrying steve) If it felt right 3 months ago then it is still right. Keep following your heart. You are going to be incredible. THere are people waiting for Sister Musso and only you will be able to teach. i just got the chills and tears came to my eyes because it is so true. I Iove you and if you need me I am here.
ALLI

Whitney and Chris said...

Bird's the Word! My belly is already huge! It's doubled in size over the last week. Kind of sick, I know! So... mom and I need to plan a trip up for our girls weekend. Let me know what your plans are for the rest of the month so we can make a plan!